Comments on: I am a failure, what about you?

By: champs kell

champs kell — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 15:47:45 +0000

You may feel like a burden to your parents and be unemployed right now, but everything changes in life.

By: Yaso

Yaso — Sat, 04 Jun 2011 23:38:18 +0000

i'm sorry.. i got so inspired by your story i almost cried. but im 13.. i always leave everything to the last minuite and never get what i want done in time.. i don't study a bit as hard as i should, even though my parents' undeserving trust in me.. im overweight but not that fat, and i can never finish anything or get anywhere i want or do anything i'd like because i always fail!! i know it sounds horribly pathetic compared to your issues which i might say i was amazed at how they turned out.. but even though i keep telling myself not to give up i fail again and again and i've just grown tired, no one can be so strong. i feel like i have literally nothing n my life but my friends and faith in god. i never ever talk to anyone about this.. not because im ashamed or scared of what they might think of me, but because i haven't just grown tired of this, i've also grown sick. no studies.. i have 4 days left of school and im in the middle of my finals and i still can't get myself going!! what the hell is wrong with me that i've been trying to lose weight since last year and i even ALWAYS eat healthy (seriously) but just can't do it till now?? i can never succeed in any of my goals and simply feel pointless. please help.

By: Brenda

Brenda — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 21:06:59 +0000

Good day! I have read the websites profile and also the stories of different persons who have encountered failure in their lives. I would like to share my own story of failure…I was terminated from my work and since then I cannot get a new job.. I can't passed the psychological exams needed for application and I have taken an international exam twice last year but I didn't achieved what I desire. I don't know what to do because it's been year already…

thank you….

By: el29

el29 — Tue, 29 Mar 2011 07:02:56 +0000

im currently failing my masters course with only one of 6 modules passed. i never seem to learn and continue to push and push but i never seem to come up with the goods. every year life gets harder and harder and its my own fault, im just a glutton for punishment.

By: Brice

Brice — Sat, 25 Dec 2010 11:54:39 +0000

Hi Tori, I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you… I'd like to talk to you on the phone if you're willing. I'll send you an email. Hang in there and don't give up.

By: Tori_tomlinson

Tori_tomlinson — Sat, 25 Dec 2010 09:27:58 +0000

I'm beyond a failure if that's possible, I have failed everyone in my life including myself. At 45 there's absolutley no hope for me Brice. I continue to waste time in relationships that don't go anywhere. The last one I wasted 12 years in. He used me, abused me and I allowed him to then of course dumped me and moved on to somebody else without looking back. I'm empty and numb. I've not talked to my mother in over a year because of the hurt and embarrasment. Currently I have no car it's been broke and parked in my drive for over a year, I lost my job 6 mths ago, I have no phone it got shut off, and my internet will be shut of the begining of the New Year, I have lost all hope in everything and don't see anyway out. Thanks for sharing you post I only wish I could feel optimistic about something.

By: Brice Royer

Brice Royer — Sat, 15 May 2010 11:06:09 +0000

Never give up, Felicia. Hang in there. Persistence will give you a breakthrough. Call me if you want to talk. #209-753-4869

Don't drag the regrets of yesterday into today. You can't do anything about your past, but you can change your future.

You may have had an unfair past, but you don't have to have an unfair future.

Decide to move on and say: "I don't care how hard this is, I'm not gonna let it bother me anymore. I'm moving on with my life."

When you say: "I will stop being a victim." you have regained control of your life. Don't let the past control your future.

You deserve reliable friends and relationships. Don't settle with people who mistreat you.

And if guys turn you down, I would say: "That's their loss. It's because they don't have good taste. :P"

As far as graduating from college... I know a homeless at 14 years old, joined a street gang, and never graduated from high-school. Today he's happily married and he's a billionaire... Google Bill Bartmann.

I have a homeless friend on drugs who almost committed suicide. Today he's still alive, found a relationship, and works for a shelter.

There is always hope. Never ever ever EVER give up!

By: Brice Royer

Brice Royer — Sat, 15 May 2010 04:06:09 +0000

Never give up, Felicia. Hang in there. Persistence will give you a breakthrough. Call me if you want to talk. #209-753-4869

Don't drag the regrets of yesterday into today. You can't do anything about your past, but you can change your future.

You may have had an unfair past, but you don't have to have an unfair future.

Decide to move on and say: “I don't care how hard this is, I'm not gonna let it bother me anymore. I'm moving on with my life.”

When you say: “I will stop being a victim.” you have regained control of your life. Don't let the past control your future.

You deserve reliable friends and relationships. Don't settle with people who mistreat you.

And if guys turn you down, I would say: “That's their loss. It's because they don't have good taste. ”

As far as graduating from college… I know a homeless at 14 years old, joined a street gang, and never graduated from high-school. Today he's happily married and he's a billionaire… Google Bill Bartmann.

I have a homeless friend on drugs who almost committed suicide. Today he's still alive, found a relationship, and works for a shelter.

There is always hope. Never ever ever EVER give up!

By: Felicia Wesley

Felicia Wesley — Mon, 10 May 2010 12:39:22 +0000

I am more of a failure than what you say you were. I haven't graduated from college. I have been attending since 1988 and I still do not know what I want to major in. I work for the local post office performing hard duties. I tried to sing in choirs but get passed over for solos all of the time. I am turned down by guys all of the time. I do nothing in life but work and come home. I have no friends. I am a total failure. I can't even succeed at suicide.

By: Brice

Brice — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 13:24:19 +0000

You're not a loser because your goals have only been deferred temporarily, and you have a great attitude too!

You may feel like a burden to your parents and be unemployed right now, but everything changes in life. It's only a matter of time until you become the person you were created to be.

We learn more from failure than success. Sometimes not having what we want is the best teacher.

I'm still a failure. I just re-framed the definition of failing which is a necessary stepping stone towards your goal.

Losing = A stepping stone to success.
* An opportunity for learning and development.
* An opportunity for creative change and innovation.

Be well,
Brice