Don't drag the regrets of yesterday into today. You can't do anything about your past, but you can change your future.

You may have had an unfair past, but you don't have to have an unfair future.

Decide to move on and say: “I don't care how hard this is, I'm not gonna let it bother me anymore. I'm moving on with my life.”

When you say: “I will stop being a victim.” you have regained control of your life. Don't let the past control your future.

You deserve reliable friends and relationships. Don't settle with people who mistreat you.

And if guys turn you down, I would say: “That's their loss. It's because they don't have good taste. ”

As far as graduating from college… I know a homeless at 14 years old, joined a street gang, and never graduated from high-school. Today he's happily married and he's a billionaire… Google Bill Bartmann.

I have a homeless friend on drugs who almost committed suicide. Today he's still alive, found a relationship, and works for a shelter.

There is always hope. Never ever ever EVER give up!

You may feel like a burden to your parents and be unemployed right now, but everything changes in life. It's only a matter of time until you become the person you were created to be.

We learn more from failure than success. Sometimes not having what we want is the best teacher.

I'm still a failure. I just re-framed the definition of failing which is a necessary stepping stone towards your goal.

Losing = A stepping stone to success.
* An opportunity for learning and development.
* An opportunity for creative change and innovation.

Be well,
Brice

I am a failure but not like you who has turned out to be successful. I was given a great opportunity to study at the best university of my country and yet could not utilize the opportunity at all.

I graduated with the least possible CGPA (any less and they would not let me finish it) and it took me 2 additional terms.
Later i was determined that i would do well in post graduation, turns out my grade is even inferior than the previous one.

I cant get any jobs now. I am still a burden to my parents. My face looks very immature and gives the impression that i am only 16 (not in a glamorous way though). I have no friends, never dated any girl, everyone seem to take advantage of me since i have no guts.

But i have made my peace with everything now. I keep reminding myself that millions of people die out of hunger and because of externally imposed war every year. Compared to them i am in a much better position. So what if i am a loser, there are worse condition than that.