Brice Royer

I think TCKs have many advantages. And every advantage is often brought forth by a challenge we can overcome. In the end, it is worth it.

Expat parents need to be aware of this. We cannot have a great health, education, job or relationship without some challenges. We cannot learn to be open-minded without being misunderstood. We cannot have 3 passports and have friends in 29 countries without feeling restlessness and unsure about where *Home* is. We cannot travel the world without some culture shock and the inevitable losses of saying goodbye to friends and family.

Being in denial of challenges can prevent you from effectively dealing with issues that require action. But with the right attitude, support and courageously facing your circumstances, the challenges are worth the amazing experiences and advantages that comes with them. Denial of challenges is not the solution. We need to face both sides in order to grow. I think it all depends on your perspective.

TCKs tend to speak more than one language, some 3 or 4. I think some of them are geniuses, but not me. I am the exception, I cannot speak any language properly!

TCKs are constantly on the move and this allows them to learn and have some great characteristics. Because of the condition that they grew up in they tend to adapt quickly to new surroundings, unfamiliar cities, countries, people, cultures etc. They make great cultural bridges because they are open minded and less prejudiced of others. They are very observant and sensitive of other people. A lot of us have adapted to living in the present because we never know where we are going to be tomorrow. A high percentage of TCKs attend university and obtain advanced degrees.